5 ways to deal with jealousy

Are you annoyed, irritated whenever his phone pings or he checks his mail? Are you always monitoring him, wondering who he is talking to or worse, flirting with? Well, being jealous is completely normal for a woman. But anything about that is just plain madness. BUT, there is also the question of; is being a little worried about your man justified? Although women hate to admit it, they do get jealous. And for tiny reasons. However miniscule these reasons maybe, you just can't stop a woman from getting jealous. Sometimes, it takes on a whole new meaning to the men. For them, jealousy is a sign of possesiveness, madness, insanity... (yes!) so what's a woman to do in a world where there's so many temptations for a man to fall into? 1. First of all, tell your man that you do get jealous and yes, you do fume when he chats with other women. BUT that necessarily doesn't mean you will brood about it the entire day. 2. Use key words like "At this moment" or "Today, I am upset because I saw you talking with her". This will emphasize on the fact that the moment now is what is important and that you aren't generalizing. 3. If you are going to be pointing fingers and getting jealous, make sure you aren't committing the same mistakes as well. Stay away from ex-flames, flirts and men who have a knack of hitting on you all the time. 4. Just because you're jealous don't do the same thing to him. In simple words, do not 'get back' at your man or play fire with fire. Yes, we know you are the superior one and you have an ego the size of the country, but remember absolutely no good is going to come out of being vindictive. 5. There's nothing that can't be solved with a conversation. So talk it out. Don't raise your voice, improve your argument rather.